Splitting; The Eternal Good / Bad Dilemma

Not quite sure how to express what I am trying to express accept that I am concerned that women & girls in their “empowerment” are in actuality disempowering themselves from their hearts, their healthy individuation, selfhood and cutting themselves and others out of the feminine principle in its most humane form.

Something to not celebrate in all the  “me too” victim confession.  I believe that In its principle intention and motivation, which is to bring consciousness and right action to those undeveloped, unaware and undignified folks who think that when no one is watching they can exploit must stop. Agreed!  Therefore,  if they cannot stop themselves and do not see the crime in it, well then they must be called out. Called out so as to bring light, healing and a new  conscious understanding to the situation.

I do not condone inappropriate exploitative behavior in anybody, no matter what gender or sexual preference one is incarnating in at any time.

i do love strong, sexy hot gentleman. And I want to live in a world where both men and women share cohabitation on this planet in all countries with dignity, respect and responsible connection to their sexuality. ( BTW, I heard somebody say once that they believed that sexuality is a gift from the Universe!) I can see that.

Such a delicious thing that the patriarchs decided to bottle it in their interpretations of “divine spiritually” and sell it as forbidden. And now in the 21st Century perverse dumbed down presidencies and all manner of barbaric inhumanity seems to reign with all of our advanced technologies and regressed reptilian brains too damn intact to dismantle as of yet thus the decay caused by the hungry ghost syndrome and the impoverishment of humanity.

I am witnessing with concern that this is something that is being seen and understood as liberating and restorative when perhaps it is a mere splitting off of power which then is being acknowledged and applauded since it is comprehended as a taking back of power.  As a woman, Astrologer and practitioner, somehow this display this paradigm shift does not seem in its core as a real shift at all.   Rather it seems  to be replacing one externalized “Power over” with another “Power Ovet”.

I don’t believe this is the way to go, my sisters!      Mostly because I see what is being displayed as a taking  pride in an outwardly but not deeply and sincerely healthy solution to a situation that is in actuality  a symptom of a deeper  problem that has not been fully comprehended in a sensible comprehensive enough way.    I will hope that perhaps these displays of calling out the bad boys in all of their inappropriate bad behavior can be a start towards the revelation and discovery of what is being called upon by all of us that then ultimately shall lead to a transformation in our consciousness that includes, with respect every aspect of our humanity for all people.

As it is, albeit the intention behind these exposes is honorable as in being well intended in trying to bring about a beneficial result.     However, my discomfort with the “calling out events” is that I hear and witness the psyche of an unindividuated being having a temper tantrum because the trusted authority “ big daddy” turned out to be a not so honorable man or worst yet as astonishingly unindividuated as you.     The outcome at this time is that  now you, the proud   alleged “woman”, believe you have now reclaimed your power and that you are at last liberated.       I don’t see your seeming victory as liberation at all.    Rather one  form of tyranny now gets replaced with another.

There must be another way.

I know that there is or I don’t believe I’d find this all so unsettling.

I see and vision another way as being the journey of finding your inner sovereignty via embodying a healthy sense of selfhood. Yes an embodied sense of healthy selfhood thus embracing your own dominion and therefore easily and effortlessly working your power through  sensible, clever, intelligent humanity, using wit, love and communication. BTW, rage and anger when worked with and expressed appropriately is a form of love that the Buddhists call ruthless compassion.

I see this moment in time as this issue is being exposed and played neither about Feminism nor Masculinism but rather about Humanism.  Becoming human. Embracing our humanity.      The Heart, Soul, Mind and most importantly the Body of all beings at this time needs to become aware conscious, caring and responsible for their matter.  It all matters, (the Latin word for mother, btw).

Humanism, in the form of aware conscious and yes understanding, compassionate humanity is the direction we all must be going in.   I truly believe we get there by embracing our humanity in healthy connection to our senses, our sensate needs, our bodies, our minds, our hearts and our Souls.

Published by pjlivingsolutions

My love, respect and appreciation of people is what truly inspires the way I read & interpret astrology charts. I love the magnificently poetic, electromagnetic, spiritual tool of Astrology. Fascinatingly serving my work in the journey of healing others. I find that it is through knowledge and awareness that comes the wisdom & clarity that guides, inspires and supports the integration of Self & Soul. This expressed by way of the authentic awareness in an “aha” moment of clarity which is the door to freedom, self reclamation & a beautiful well lived life. New choices. New solutions. Appropriate healthy changes. Validation that supports and guides movement forward. My fascination and awe with all that life continuously unfolds along with the gift I am so honored and grateful to embody that brought me here to my work in Astrology, Psychology, the Healing Arts and Storytelling is what empowers me to deeply attune, mindfully listen, support and guide the folks I work with so that they find ways to make their lives into a vibrant delicious and connected experience. It is through my work that I seek to encourage positive growth & successful development in order to build a beautiful, prosperous, healthy life.

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